About

Dear Black Gay Men is a nationally recognized media organization that creates content and events to highlight the Black gay experience.
Who we are

Your weekly reminder of how dope it is to be Black gay men who love Black gay men

Our step out of our comfort zone to talk about the ups and downs along our journey to happiness.

Dear Black Gay Men amplifies the voices and experiences of Black gay men through raw, authentic content and conversations free from taboo. The platform has become a trusted space where no topic is off-limits, fostering open discussions on everything from love and relationships to mental health, identity, and self-empowerment.

Under the visionary leadership of host and founder Jai The Gentleman, the podcast has gained a loyal and growing audience across the nation, with each episode offering a candid, humorous, and always insightful look at life through the lens of Black queer identity.

DBGM curates unique opportunities for Black gay men to share authentically, express boldly and understand each other deeply. Beyond its engaging podcast episodes, Dear Black Gay Men is also a hub for community-building, producing powerful in-person events that celebrate and uplift the Black gay experience. Whether through live discussions, workshops, or creative collaborations, Dear Black Gay Men serves as a beacon for Black queer culture, continually creating spaces where Black gay men can thrive, connect, and see their stories reflected with honesty and pride.

Dear Black Gay Men

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Tune-in to our live stream, airing weekly. Thursdays at 8 pm Eastern

Our live streams foster an incredibly interactive community. Black gay viewers actively participate through chats, polls, and Q&A sessions, creating a high-energy environment perfect for promoting your brand in a real-time, engaging way.

How We Started

I got stood up for a date that I really wanted with a guy that I really liked. Dear Black Gay Men emerged as my heartfelt response to that experience—a love letter to every hopeful single who yearns for genuine connection and understanding.

It’s a space where we celebrate the shared experiences of navigating relationships and seeking meaningful bonds, turning personal setbacks into a collective story of connection and community.

Our Philosophy

We stand on business...

I.

Love

Celebrate Black gay culture’s journey to happiness by sharing the struggles and triumphs of dating in 2024.

II.

Life

Enhance your well-being with stories and events focused on the health and wellness of Black gay men.

III.

Vibes

Take a break, press pause, and recharge with your regularly scheduled Thursday night pregame to the turn up.

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