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DBGM Impact

The award-winning Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

Dear Black Gay Men amplifies what Jai The Gentleman does best. We spark discussions on important topics, showcase products, people, and ideas that drive culture.Β 

DBGM cultivates a community that reminds us how dope it is to be Black gay men and love Black gay men.

Meet Our Audience

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DBGM content is the group chat with your besties, your favorite book, and your next first date, all rolled into one.

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Dear Black Gay Men is like your most in-the-know but least judgmental friend reminding you of how dope you are

**Reflects YTD analytics as of July 2025

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Dear Black Gay Men reaches men in their prime as they start, rethink, or execute some of the biggest decisions of their lives–love, relationship, home ownership, & starting a family.

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Dear Black Gay Men reminds us how dope it is to be Black gay men and be in love with Black gay men.

Meeting the unique needs of Black queer culture

Dear Black Gay Men exists to get culture talking about subjects that matter and ideas that make impact. And turn that conversation into action.

This platform is the best place for brands to connect with a dynamic and influential audience.Β  We are trendsetters within our communities and beyond.Β  Visible and socially active, DBGM amplifies our collective voice and presence to drive cultural conversations and influence trends.

DEAR BLACK GAY MEN

creating action

We are the platform that Jai The Gentleman uses to lift dynamic voices who are making an impact.Β  This has become more than just a podcast: it’s culture in the content, community in the comments, and collective power in the impact.

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engagement & Impact

From social impact like HIV testing initiatives to artistic impact like literature, cinema and nightlife, Dear Black Gay Men is culture.

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Dear Black Gay Men shows why action is important and how to take action for our own lives.

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From books by Black queer artists to new businesses and events from Black queer entrepreneurs, DBGM shows the power of collective movement and support.

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And when the work of building culture has peaked, DBGM shows how, when, and where Black queer culture can let it’s hair down and turn up.

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about us

engaging content

Curated products, people and ideas that make an impact and drive culture. From the best book you need to be reading to new experiences specifically for Black queer people, Dear Black Gay Men makes culture relatable and helps Black queer people find their place in it.

culture & dating

From what to wear on a date, to what to look for in men to date, to where to go with a date, Black queer men are on a constant journey toward connection. Dear Black Gay Men creates opportunity for your brand to aid in building connection among an audience to craves it now more than ever.

events

The at-home, kiki with your friends vibe that our viewers enjoy online, but live, in-person. Vibe out in The Backroom (DBGM's podcast studio) for in-person recordings or partake in the vibes with events across the United States hosted by Jai The Gentleman.

Our Partners

Don’t just take our word for it

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I love you, Jai The Gentleman. Thank you for letting me be a part of Dear Black Gay Men.
@kraig_wit_a_k
Influencer & Creator
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πŸ™ŒπŸΎπŸ™ŒπŸΎπŸ™ŒπŸΎπŸ™ŒπŸΎ and that'ts how we keep the Black queer culture relevant!! Keep rising King!! πŸ™ŒπŸΎπŸ™ŒπŸΎ ❀️❀️
@TheRealMarcoMays
Montgomery Pride United
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Thank you for doing REAL work and for creating a platform where all of the conversations in our community have a platform. I can speak first hand about the amazing work you AND your team do across the country. "And for that, I say thank you!"
Dr. R. Wayne Woodson
NAESM Inc.
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Keep doing the work
Dr. Daniel Driffin
HIV Vaccine Trials Network

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