Dear Black Gay Men amplifies what Jai The Gentleman does best. We spark discussions on important topics, showcase products, people, and ideas that drive culture.Β
DBGM cultivates a community that reminds us how dope it is to be Black gay men and love Black gay men.
DBGM content is the group chat with your besties, your favorite book, and your next first date, all rolled into one.
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Dear Black Gay Men is like your most in-the-know but least judgmental friend reminding you of how dope you are
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Dear Black Gay Men reaches men in their prime as they start, rethink, or execute some of the biggest decisions of their lives–love, relationship, home ownership, & starting a family.
Dear Black Gay Men reminds us how dope it is to be Black gay men and be in love with Black gay men.
Dear Black Gay Men exists to get culture talking about subjects that matter and ideas that make impact. And turn that conversation into action.
This platform is the best place for brands to connect with a dynamic and influential audience.Β We are trendsetters within our communities and beyond.Β Visible and socially active, DBGM amplifies our collective voice and presence to drive cultural conversations and influence trends.
We are the platform that Jai The Gentleman uses to lift dynamic voices who are making an impact.Β This has become more than just a podcast: it’s culture in the content, community in the comments, and collective power in the impact.
From social impact like HIV testing initiatives to artistic impact like literature, cinema and nightlife, Dear Black Gay Men is culture.
Dear Black Gay Men shows why action is important and how to take action for our own lives.
From books by Black queer artists to new businesses and events from Black queer entrepreneurs, DBGM shows the power of collective movement and support.
And when the work of building culture has peaked, DBGM shows how, when, and where Black queer culture can let it’s hair down and turn up.

Curated products, people and ideas that make an impact and drive culture. From the best book you need to be reading to new experiences specifically for Black queer people, Dear Black Gay Men makes culture relatable and helps Black queer people find their place in it.

From what to wear on a date, to what to look for in men to date, to where to go with a date, Black queer men are on a constant journey toward connection. Dear Black Gay Men creates opportunity for your brand to aid in building connection among an audience to craves it now more than ever.

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Dear Black Gay Men is a nationally recognized media organization that creates content and events to highlight the Black gay experience.Β DBGM curates unique opportunities for Black gay men to share authentically, express boldly and understand each other deeply.
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