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My sexual escapism is at an ALL TIME HIGH

Two weeks ago, the Voldemort of politics was re-elected to the highest office in the land, side-stepping any responsibility for the numerous felony convictions he’d racked up. My mentor and colleague passed and I can’t stop wondering if I’d said enough about how much of an impact he’d had on my life and my career. I’m under fire at work for reasons we don’t need to discuss. With all of this, I can’t keep my dick out of my hand.

I came back from a long trip to be greeted by a regular who sucked the life out of my body. I huffed my poppers and let him do what he felt was most appropriate to my erection. I came and needed more. The following day, after a workout that was 3-weeks overdue, I meandered my way to the cruising park which, I’m not ashamed to know is 3.2 miles from my home, exactly. One gobbled and two came in other ways. But I wasn’t finished…nor do I think I’m finished now.

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The Unlikely Throuple Tour: Trailblazing Trio Tackle Conversations on Race, Identity, and Sexuality in the Black Community

October 10, 2024 – A groundbreaking tour is set to hit the cities of Atlanta, Houston, and Washington D.C., bringing together three of Black culture’s most trusted voices—comprised of a Black Trans Activist, a Black Gay Podcast Host, and a Black Cis-Het Media Influencer—to tackle the pressing issues and intersections of race, identity, and sexuality. The Unlikely Throuple Tour promises a series of electrifying and thought-provoking events throughout the South.

This collaboration unites Hope Giselle, a national organizer and trans activist; Jai The Gentleman, the founder and host of the Dear Black Gay Men podcast; and The Conscious Lee, a renowned educator and media influencer. Each brings a distinct perspective and unique lived experience navigating the world, yet together they embody a powerful synergy that is both “unexpected” and profoundly compelling. 

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Dear Black Gay Men Podcast Announces Historic New Season Launch and Becomes the Only Black Queer-Led YouTube Channel with a Full Production Studio in Atlanta

ATLANTA, GADear Black Gay Men, one of the nation’s leading podcasts dedicated to authentic conversations by, for, and about Black gay men, is set to launch its newest season on September 19, 2024, at 8 p.m. Eastern. The show continues to break barriers, not just with its influential discussions, but by making history as the only Black queer-led YouTube channel with its own full production studio in Atlanta.

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